Nothing is better than unwinding and relaxing after a long day with the help of your favorite sex toy!
This is even a fun activity to do with your partner, as you enjoy teasing each other amid a crowd.
But one thing that can lead to embarrassment and disrupt your pleasure?
Being discovered (gasp!) Fortunately, most toys are made using the power of silent motors!
Below are some of the best toys to use if you need to have a solo session or play with a partner discreetly.
Lovense Lush 3
The powerful and uniquely designed Lovense Lush 3 is one of the most popular toys on the market today!
Its unique c-shaped design combines powerful vibrations with functionality during couples’ play.
The Lovense Lush 3 has been hailed for its many different settings, that can be used comfortably while having intercourse filled with penetration and vibrations all at once.
The Lovense Lush 3 provides Bluetooth capabilities for both short-range control and long-range control!
Its beautiful egg shape holds firmly in place, so you can enjoy it during intimate rough sex, or simply when you need to have hours of solo fun.
With up to 5 hours of playtime, you can use the Lovense Lush 3 with a partner, sync it to music, or even use sound-activated vibrations!
Best of all, this comes with an ultra-quiet motor, so you can use it if you’re living with roommates or in a busy household.
Using the App also gives you access to an online chat, where you can get the most out of your fantasies!
Pros
- A redesigned antenna that allows this toy to have premium connectivity
- Puts more pressure on the G-spot thanks to its u-shaped design
- Can be used for solo play, foreplay, or long-distance play
- Only 43 dB of sound at its maximum
- Can be used while sitting, standing, or anywhere in the world with Wi-Fi connectivity
- Waterproof
- Magnetic charging port
Cons
- Redesigned to improve connectivity, but might still lag
- Might not be strong enough for some that are used to battery-powered toys
Lovense Exomoon
This super-spy vibrator should be included on the “must-have” list of any woman.
The Lovense Exomoon should have “discreet” as its middle name and is one of the smallest vibrators on the market.
It comes in the shape of lipstick…daring and bold!
Its small lipstick design makes it perfect to slip into your purse, carry in your travel bag, or even have in the open while at home.
When you’re vacationing with family but need a little bit of solo time, this is the perfect vibrator to take with you due to its discreet design, small size, and its quiet motor.
The Lovense Exomoon has a slanted tip at the very edge, making it one of the best clitoral vibrators as well. You can use the Lovense Exomoon for solo play with the help of an App.
Simply place it on your clit and sync it to the Lovense App for unlimited vibrations, sync to music, and more.
For people that want even more privacy, the Lovense Exomoon also comes with a hidden magnetic charger.
You don’t have to worry about people finding your Exomoon and discovering its…true purpose.
Best of all, it is also Bluetooth-compatible and is the only lipstick vibe on the market for long-distance play!
You can enjoy many features on the Lovense app, including real-time video calls, texting, remote control vibrations, and much more.
Pros
- A disguised vibrator that looks like a lipstick
- Quite and small design for easy use
- Lightweight and can fit into our purse easily
- Compatible with Bluetooth and Lovense App
- Can be used for clitoral stimulation and nipple play
Cons
- Might not be powerful enough for some
- If you tend to lose things, you might lose them unwillingly
- Might be finicky with Bluetooth connectivity
Lovense Ferri
For couples that want to make their partner scream with pleasure and delight, the Lovense Ferri is another favorite among those who want discreet play!
This vibrator was made for use with couples, and is designed to be one of the smallest wearable vibrators on the market!
It has a strong magnetic clip that can be placed on the panty liner, allowing the Lovense Ferri to stay in place during public play or solo play at home!
Its unique design allows you to experience powerful, silent vibrations on your clitoris, with the soft curving shape flowing with the curves of your body.
The silicone material is body-safe, and the toy itself is IPX7 waterproof for fun in the tub!
It also only goes up to 43 dB, meaning you can enjoy wearing this out without fear of others noticing.
The Lovense Ferri is also easy to remove, and it can be used for daily wear!
This toy is compatible with the Lovense App, and is suitable for couples that want to roleplay, play in public, and for long-distance couples!
If you value your quiet and discreet playtime, you’ll be happy to know that this vibrator is also accompanied by a sound-level control option.
In addition, you get unlimited vibrations with the help of the Lovense app, and preset vibration levels!
There are also tons of vibrational patterns to choose from, so you get to experience a new sensation almost every single time you put on the Lovense Ferri!
Pros
- Small and discreet, only 2.93 inches in length
- Quiet motor
- Powerful enough to stay in place all day due to the magnetic clip
- Can be used for long-range, short-range, or long-distance play so long as there is Wi-Fi connectivity
- Real-time video, text, and calls with the Lovense App
- Waterproof (IPX 7)
- Made of body-safe materials
Cons
- Users might experience trouble getting the app to sync with the toy for long-distance play
- Not insertable, only designed for wear on panties
We-vibe Moxie
Ever wondered what it feels like to enjoy powerful vibrations without so much as taking off your undies?
The We-Vibe Moxie is another favorite of couples that enjoy public play, as it is one of the best wearable panty vibrators on the market today.
At only 3.4 inches, it is slightly bigger than the Lovense Ferri, but still just as discreet!
The We-Vibe Moxie also comes with an attachable strong magnetic clip, which is perfect to hold it in place as you use this toy for solo play, with a partner long-distance, and also for public play.
Like the Lovense Ferri, the We-Vibe Moxie also comes with a quiet motor and discreet design. You can use this toy for public play, without anyone so much as batting an eye.
That’s because it is made of a unique silicone-shaped design that is only 0.75 inches wide at its longest point.
It is compatible with the We-Connect app, which gives users the power to easily control their vibe with the touch of a finger.
If you don’t have the app handy, this toy also comes with a handy remote that lets you cycle through ten different vibrational settings!
This is truly one of the best toys on the market for people that want to experience clitoral stimulation discreetly and quietly, and for couples that want to tease each other and improve their sex lives (quietly of course).
Pros
- The we-connect app is compatible with Android, iOS, Windows PC, and more
- Quiet motor for discreet play
- Made of body-safe silicone that is easily washable
- Has multifunction and multi-speed vibrations
- Waterproof for added fun in the pool
- Powerful magnetic clip to hold securely on panties
- Available in multiple languages
Cons
- Might not be as small as other clitoral vibrators
- Some users might have trouble connecting app due to poor internet
Dame Products Eva II
For women that want to experience the best of both worlds, that is, having amazing sex with their partner and also getting clitoral stimulation, the Eva II is one of the most revolutionizing toys on the market!
It has a quiet three-speed motor and a discreet design that makes it one of the best toys for couples.
The unique design of the Eva II allows it to be placed directly inside of the vaginal walls, around the vulva.
It is held in place by two extended arms while providing maximum coverage to the clitoris.
Because it sits at the very top of the vaginal opening, you can still have amazing penetrating sex with your partner while this toy stays firmly in place.
In addition, the Eva II is made of body-safe, medical-grade silicone, so you can rest assured it is safe to use and can provide you with loads of excitement in the bedroom!
The Eva II also comes with its recharging case, so you can have it ready to go at a moment’s notice.
It comes available in three colors, which are neutral and can be placed discreetly anywhere in the bedroom.
For people that just want to experience stimulation that takes their sex to a higher level, the Eva II is the perfect solution for couples and solo players alike.
Pros
- Can fit into the walls of the vulva and provide comfortable stimulation
- Quiet and discreet
- Small enough to be used during penetrating intercourse
- Made of body-safe materials
- Rechargeable with charging case
Cons
- Doesn’t come with an app, and isn’t meant to be used with one
- Some women might find it difficult to get the toy to stay
- Might be tough for beginner users to wear
- Might need to use a finger while having rough sex
We-vibe Chorus
Like Eva II, The We-Vibe Chorus is one of the best toys for couples that still want to have deep, penetrating sex without being interfered with by a clunky toy.
The We-Vibe Chorus has a pronounced shape, which allows it to sit comfortably on top of the clitoris and also be inserted into the vagina easily!
Its U-shape is one of the best designs to hold it in place, and its remote app allows you to keep it inserted and continue to have passionate sex without so much as taking it out!
Your partner can take full control of the We-Vibe Chorus using the We-Connect app.
In addition, this toy also has a unique squeeze feature. If you want to increase the speed and intensity of this toy, simply squeeze your legs harder together.
This makes the toy one of the best for intimate sex since it provides stimulation to the g-spot, the clitoris, and also the penis.
While it might provide a lot of stimulation, it is also very quiet, with 11 pulsing modes and a bonus mode available on the app!
Of course, if you want to use this toy for solo play, you can enjoy it all to yourself too (it’s not selfish).
Pros
- Provides stimulation to both partners during sex
- Securely in place because of the u-shaped design
- Uses AnkorLink technology for better connectivity
- USB rechargeable
- Waterproof
Cons
- Like all app-based toys, might have some connectivity issues when first using
- Can be awkward to use for first-time couples
- Might not stay in place and slip out on the first couple of uses
- Only 90 minutes of playtime on a single charge
Lelo Soraya 2
Lelo is known for being the epitome of luxury, and for producing some of the most powerful and popular toys on the market.
The Lelo Soraya 2 is no different, providing a wealth of features such as g-spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation all in one.
It is a global best-seller that comes in a variety of colors and has 12 different vibrational settings that are all ultra-quiet.
The enlarged head of the g-spot stimulator allows this to be inserted with ease and provides maximum pleasure for women of all shapes and sizes.
It is made of super soft silicone, which is what most women love about this vibrator!
The soft silicone is felt both internally and on the clitoral stimulating tip that can be adjusted to fit any shape of a woman.
Best of all, the Lelo Soraya 2 is 100% waterproof and can be used for play in the tub, pool, or for sexy time in the hot tub!
While this toy tends to have a higher price point than others on this list, it’s important to know that this is one of the best-sellers on the market today.
Lelo wants to make toys that last and even come with a warranty if you’re not satisfied or if there is something wrong with your toy.
Pros
- Quiet 12-speed vibrations
- Up to 4 hours of playtime
- A rabbit vibrator can be used on the g-spot and clitoris
- Ultra-soft design for comfort
- Body-safe materials and ABS materials used
Cons
- Isn’t compatible with any apps
- Is larger than other vibrators on this list (If it’s found, they’ll know it’s a vibrator)
- Pricey, but made to last with a warranty
Ohmibod Esca 2
The unique U-Shape of the Ohmibod Esca 2 allows you to experience both clitoral stimulations as well as g-spot stimulation!
With 2.5 inches of insertable, you can experience the Earth-shaking effects of the Ohmibod Esca 2 with a partner or solo.
This u-shape isn’t as pronounced as in other vibrators, such as the We-Vibe Chorus.
Those that are new to playing with toys might find this to be just the right shape they need to feel their g-spot stimulated, while also avoiding any sort of awkward movements.
The Ohmibod Esca 2 comes with a small remote control, which you can use for solo play during those sessions home alone.
It comes with a variety of speeds, including 4 pulse settings and 6 preset patterns.
If you want to enjoy using the Ohmibod Esca 2 with a partner, you certainly can, thanks to the Ohmibod App.
The App allows you to use your toy with your partner from anywhere in the world, as well as for foreplay.
Its quiet vibrations also allow you to use the Ohmibod Esca 2 for a variety of other uses, such as for kegel exercises as well.
Pros
- Can be used with a partner using the app
- Can provide clitoral stimulation and g-spot stimulation
- Made of body-safe silicone
- Quite motor for discreet play
- Also has settings for kegel exercises
Cons
- Might not work well for people that need Bluetooth Connectivity
- Only available in one purple color
- Battery life is not as good as the competition
Vibease
The Vibease combines the pleasure of audio erotica with powerful sensations from a wearable panty vibrator!
The Vibease has a small, curved shape with a clitoral stimulating end that makes it perfect for women that need that immersive experience while reading their favorite fantasy stories.
It can be synced with the Vibease App, which comes equipped with unique vibration settings, can be synced to text messaging, and can even be synced to music!
This makes the Vibease one of the best toys for use among couples and for women that simply want to lay back, relax, and experience some of the most thrilling orgasms combined with erotica!
The Vibease also has quiet and discreet vibrations, giving women the ability to enjoy a good book while relaxing in bed.
No one has to know what you’re listening to, or what’s going on under all of those sheets!
The Vibease app gives you access to hundreds of fantasy erotica novels online.
You can also use it to connect with a partner anywhere in the world, so long as there is Wi-Fi connectivity available.
Pros
- Can be used with audio erotica of your choice
- Can be synced with music
- Comes with a variety of vibrational settings
- A hands-free device so you don’t have to push any buttons to get off
- Can also be used for long-distance play with a partner
Cons
- More for an immersive experience, but can be used without erotica
- The unique shape is wearable, but not necessarily insertable
- Is not waterproof
FAQs
What does dB Mean?
When you see the term dB, this is a shortened way of saying decibels.
The decibels of a toy determine how loud it is, so the lower the dB number, the lower the chances of your play experience being discovered!
Some of the quietest toys have a dB rating of 40 or lower. You’ll be able to find the dB rating on the product information or the warranty information.
If not, call the customer service provider of the company that manufactures the toy for more information.
Are Wearable Vibrators Quiet and Discreet?
You’ll be happy to know that most wearable vibrators have been designed with discreetness in mind.
The people who design these vibrators understand that they will be worn out for public play, and as such, have made it so that these specific panties or wearable vibrators are quieter than other designs.
Having a quiet vibrator that is comfortable to wear all day makes it more enjoyable for women, and is one of the best toys for both solo play and couples alike.
Does Size Determine if a Toy is Quiet?
While smaller toys might tend to be quieter than larger toys, this isn’t necessarily true of all toys.
Some larger toys might have quieter settings, such as the Soraya 2 which provides a quiet motor and vibrations but is still larger than other sex toys.
The most important thing that will determine how quiet or loud a toy is will be its motor.
Most toys have a motor that is placed inside of them, allowing the toy to function, vibrate, move, and provide clitoral stimulation.
If you don’t want to purchase a loud toy, perhaps the best thing to do is choose a toy for beginners that offers subtle vibrations.
How Else Can I Keep My Masturbation Session Discreet?
The best thing to do for people that want to keep their solo masturbation discreet will be to purchase a toy that is known for having lower decibels and for being designed for discreet play!
Take, for instance, the Lovense that is made to be used with audio erotica, and possibly headphones.
However, if you do have a loud toy, some tips include taking it into the bath with you so you can enjoy some fun in the privacy of your bathroom, playing music loudly so others won’t hear, or also locking your door (say you have a nap or headache or need to rest).
While we all wish we didn’t live in busy households or had all the time in the world for solo play, for some women this might not be an option.
Do Reviews Help in Choosing a Toy?
If you aren’t able to find any information about how loud a toy is, or if you’re having trouble finding any information on a newer toy, it’s best to try and find reviews online for the toy you want.
These reviews will, more often than not, answer any questions you might have about the toy itself.
If you want to know if it’s loud, how it felt for women using it, and if it was compatible with different apps, then reviews can help answer all of these questions.
However, you might not be able to find specific information in reviews, such as warranty information or specific dB levels.
Nevertheless, online reviews are a valuable source of information if you want to purchase a toy and know what others thought of it ahead of time.
Where Can I Find the Best Reviews for Silent Toys?
You’re in the right place!
We’ve taken the time to thoroughly research these toys and provide you with a variety of options, whether you want to experience clitoral stimulation, g-spot stimulation, want a toy that uses an app, or need a toy for solo play.
However, there are other places online where you can find reviews that inform you of how quiet or loud a toy is.
Nowadays, there are many YouTube videos where women and men share their experiences using their toys.
These videos are one of the best ways to hear a sex toy up close since you can find demonstrations of how loud they are online.
In addition, there are plenty of sex forums that users can post questions on, which also inform you of the latest sales, where to find the best sex toys and possible issues that you might face with certain toys.
With a little research, you can find the best toys online.
Do Apps Help a Toy Be More Discreet?
Apps can be used along with toys if you want to have a more discreet experience.
That’s because instead of using a remote, or reaching down and using buttons located on the toy itself, many apps allow the toy to be controlled using hands-free signals.
These hands-free apps allow you to control the speed, vibrational settings, and pulse patterns of your toy. Some even allow you to sync your toy up with different music and story settings!
Whichever toy you decide to buy, the app must be compatible with your specific phone. In general, most apps will only be compatible with the latest versions of Bluetooth or your phone.
If you have an older iPhone or Android model, make sure it can support the app of the toy you want.
