When I was in a long-distance relationship, one of the biggest issues that came up between us was the lackluster sex life.
While phone sex or steamy video calls might work for a little while, the spark can fizzle out if you don’t have something spicing things up.
Like with all sexy times, the same old routine gets boring if you don’t shake it up.
Whether you’re looking for ways to bring you and your long-distance partner to new heights in the bedroom or you’re trying to find some high-tech gear to explore on your own, you’ve come to the right article.
We’ll review ten of our top picks for wifi sex toys and answer your burning questions below.
Lovense Max 2 and Nora: Best Bang for Your Buck
As the ultimate his-and-hers (or hers/hers, his/his, theirs/theirs, etc.) wifi sex toy, Lovense delivers a dynamic duo at a more affordable price point than comparable toys on the market.
Once you and your lover download the Lovense Body Chat app on your smartphones, you’ll be ready to start pleasuring each other (and yourselves) from near, far, or wherever you are.
The app works for iOS or Android operating systems as well as Mac and Windows computers, so even if distance is getting in the way, technology won’t interfere with your fun.
What’s more, Lovense Max 2 and Nora are both compatible for use on the app with other toys, such as the Hush butt plug and Lush vibrating egg.
As long as you have an internet connection and Bluetooth capabilities, the possibilities are endless!
As a masturbator, the Lovense Max 2 uses an air pump mechanism to create friction similar to a real vagina.
With four levels of pressure and vibration, you can either reach the good vibration that feels best to you or give your partner the reins.
Overall, the soft silicone and waterproof material make this toy easy to clean and easy to use.
Being a remote-controlled vibrator, the Lovense Nora offers traditional vibration and innovative rotation to stimulate the G spot and clitoris at the same time.
For a customized mind-blowing experience, users can control the vibration and rotation separately.
You can also let your partner control the rotation or vibration, so you can just let go and enjoy the ride.
With customizable rotation and four levels of vibration, no two sessions with the Lovense Nora toy will be alike.
With the Nora and the Max 2, you can set the vibrations to a song of your choice. This feature can bring you and your long-distance lover even closer together as you climax to the same chorus.
For these toys, you might want them to blast music–on certain settings, they can be noisy, so be mindful of your surroundings when using them.
Pros
- Waterproof
- Easy clean-up
- Compatible with other Lovense wifi toys on the BodyChat app
- Remote control
- Affordable
- Multiple speeds and settings
Cons
- Noisy
- Nora’s vibration isn’t the strongest
Lovense Lush 3: Most Unique Design for Female Pleasure
With a unique design and ability to stimulate the clitoris and g-spot at home or remotely, the Lovense Lush 3 is perfect for those who want to ditch the traditional vibrator for something novel.
As they say, variety is the spice of life, and some of us need a little extra spice in the bedroom.
The Lovense Lush 3 connects to the BodyChat app so your long-distance partner can give you those good vibrations from the other side of town or the other side of the world.
With the innovative curved shape that tapers from an egg to a shaft, this toy stimulates the inside and outside of female genitals for an explosive experience.
With a long battery life, this toy will keep you coming back for more fun for hours before you need to recharge it.
While you can use it with or without lubricant, based on your preference, you’ll want to use gentle toy-safe cleaners to cleanse it before and after use.
Pros
- Waterproof
- Remote control
- Compatible with BodyChat app
- Multiple settings
- Lightweight for travel
- High power
- Long battery life
Cons
- Not safe for using in a shower or submerging in water
- May only stimulate g-spot and clitoris due to shape
Lovense Calor: Best Wifi Sex Toy for Men
As one of the most popular masturbators on the market, Lovense Calor is a hot choice for people with penises.
With many features tailored to giving users the best orgasm a toy can offer, the Lovense Calor is the perfect option for people who want a lot of bang for their buck on a sex toy.
Essentially, the Lovense Calor is a heating sleeve masturbator that is flexible enough for you to squeeze to enhance your masturbating experience.
Whether you’re enjoying a solo session with it or hooking up to the Lovense app for partnered play, the Calor is sure to please you in ways that no other masturbator can.
With its lightweight silicone waterproof material, it’s perfect for traveling or taking with you into the shower for a slippery solo sex experience.
Since Lovense Calor has an open-ended structure, it will fit any length. This makes it perfect for users with above-average lengths.
To clean the Lovense Calor, simply use gentle antibacterial soap, water, a cleaner of your choice, and then dry with a lint-free cloth before storing.
Pros
- Unique features such as heating, squeezing, depth responsive sensors, and flexibility
- Responsive to your body and desires
- Perfect for all lengths and sizes
Cons
- Not suitable for hands-off play
- Incompatible with many major remote sex games and adult entertainment widgets
Lovense Sex Machine: Most Realistic Wifi Sex Simulator
While nothing can replace sexy times in person, the Lovense Sex Machine comes close.
For those who want a true-to-life penetrative experience, the Lovense Sex Machine is the best choice for you.
The Lovense Sex Machine is essentially a powerful sex machine with two ends to attach dildos for multiple-partner play.
With numerous settings, speeds, adjustments, and a simple assembly, this toy has it all.
For remote play, all you have to do is hook the Lovense Sex Machine up to the app on your desktop or smartphone and begin experimenting.
You can either take control or let your partner take you any way they want from close by or far away through the remote features.
Pros
- Mimics sex like no other toy
- Discreet storage makes it easy to stow away or travel without questions
- Multiple speeds and adjustments to tailor play to your preferences
- Straightforward assembly
- Quiet
- Easy to clean
Cons
- It takes up more space than a pocket-sized sex toy.
- It can be too powerful for some folks who are more sensitive.
Lovense Edge 2: Best Anal Toy
For those interested in long-distance anal play, the Lovense Edge 2 is an ideal option.
This small-but-mighty vibrating prostate massager is great for beginners and expert anal players alike.
With three different settings, the ability to sync to music, and compatibility with the Lovense app, the Edge 2 is perfect for solo play or partnered play up close or from a distance.
To use, simply charge the Lovense Edge 2 with the magnetic charger provided, quickly clean it with your preferred silicone-friendly sex toy cleaner, pat it dry with a lint-free cloth, add some water-based lube to the toy, and start exploring.
Once you’re done with your frisky backdoor fun, clean it up, dry it off, and store it.
Pros
- Three speed settings and four patterns for varied pleasure
- Easy to clean
- Compact for discreet storage
Cons
- Does not come with lube for first use
- Size might be too small for more advanced users.
- Higher speeds can be loud
Kiiroo Onyx + and Pearl 2: Best Option to Satisfy Both Partners
When you want toys that are satisfying for both partners, the Kiiroo Onyx + and Pearl 2 can’t be beaten.
After all, if you’re buying long-distance sex toys, you’ll want to make sure they are compatible with each other. Otherwise, the wifi capability doesn’t matter.
For a partner with a penis, the Onyx+ is a masturbator that is big on pleasure and light on weight, noise, and flashiness.
This makes it ideal for traveling or stowing away in the presence of nosy roommates.
On the technology size, the Onyx+ offers speeds as great as 140 strokes per minute. Despite its powerful punch, the Onyx+ keeps the noise down and the good vibrations up.
A series of ten rings line the inner sleeve of the Onyx+ to deliver pleasurable sensations in multiple directions.
With this dynamic duo, the female partner can experience equal amounts of enjoyment.
With a shaft equipped with touch-sensitive technology, this toy’s intense vibrations will take you to another place.
No matter where your partner is, you can connect Pearl2 with the Onyx+ for an interactive orgasmic event.
Touch-sensitive pads can shift the intensity and speed of the Pearl2 as well as the strokes on the Onyx+.
By stroking the Pearl2, your partner will feel every touch on the Onyx+. To return the favor, your partner can swipe the touchpad on the Onyx+ toy.
If you want to bring other images or ideas into your session, you can connect both of these toys to thousands of interactive videos on various platforms.
Using Virtual Reality or 2-Dimensional viewing modes, you can feel your favorite stars–including your partner.
Pros
- Compatible with Virtual Reality
- Ideal for couples who are geographically close or far apart
- High quality
- New and improved technology
- Quiet
- Touch responsive
Cons
- Not suitable for use in water
- Higher price point than some budget toys
The Handy: Best Handjob Simulator
For penis owners who want a state-of-the-art masturbator, The Handy works to give a superlative handjob experience.
Lightweight and reliable, The Handy doesn’t need to be charged before use.
Instead of hoping it will retain power, you can focus on reaching O-Town with its direct electrical connection powering your pleasure.
If you have other sleeves or sex toys, you can attach them to the Handy with the toy’s flexible velcro connector system.
This way, you can customize the experience in terms of grip, strokes, and speed.
To tap into its technological features, simply connect to Wi-fi directly or use Bluetooth to avoid connecting to the internet for privacy and security.
Since The Handy regularly updates with novel integrations and surprising features, it’s an investment in your pleasure that will pay off with new and exciting experiences.
Pros
- Lightweight
- Quiet
- The company is invested in continually improving the product
- Compatible with connecting to current toys for varied experience and customization
Cons
- Does not pair with partner’s sex toys
- Cannot be controlled by a long-distance partner
Kiiroo Keon: Most Customizable Masturbator
As far as masturbators go, Kiiro Keon takes the cake for its innovative design.
With built-in controls, users can customize their masturbation experience by slowing it down, speeding it up, and increasing or decreasing the stroke lengths.
When you pair the Kiiro Keon with the FeelConnect 3 app, you can hook the toy up to adult interactive sites as well as some performers who use webcams.
With virtual reality connectivity, you can give yourself a realistic sexy experience that is almost as good as the real deal.
While some folks have complained about short battery life and trouble connecting to the app, the Kiiroo Keon is a great choice for realistic, customizable technology-assisted hand jobs.
Pros
- Connectivity to Virtual Reality
- Interactive
- Easy to clean
- Different speeds and stroke lengths to suit your needs and preferences
Cons
- Low battery life
- Some reported issues connecting to app
Virtual Mate: Most Immersive Virtual Sex Toy
If you want an experience that genuinely mimics real live sex, Virtual Mate does its best. That’s the main reason why we had to include it on this list.
Virtual Mate is the first of its kind. As a sex toy, it offers a human-computer interaction interface.
Essentially, your virtual partner is not only available for your viewing pleasure, but also responds to you.
With real-time sensors located in the “Core” device on the outside of the product, your Virtual Mate will respond similarly to a real-life partner.
As the Virtual Mate technology listens to you through its many intelligent sensors, the avatar on your screen or in your Virtual Reality headset will move accordingly.
Although the technology relies on artificial intelligence, there won’t be anything artificial about the powerful orgasms this product delivers.
If you have a long-distance partner or favorite porn star, you can get an avatar that looks like them (with their consent, of course).
This opens up the possibilities for realistic long-distance sex that is satisfying emotionally and physically.
Pros
- Realistic sexual experience through cybersex technology
- More natural than similar products on the market
- Responsive technology
Cons
- High price point
Ohmibod fuse: Most Responsive Toy for Partner Play
As one of the classic wifi sex toys, the Ohmibod Fuse is a must-have for any wifi sex toy collection.
This dual-stim massager offers Bluetooth connection and communication between two toys.
Because the toy allows partners to control devices remotely, you can pleasure your partner and delight them from a distance to bring the two of you closer in the bedroom.
With a simple touch or tap of a finger, you can switch up the speed or pattern of your partner’s device.
With bidirectional communication, your partner can return the favor with the flick of a finger, too.
One of the best features on this toy is its ability to sync up with other popular devices, such as the Fleshlight Launch by Kiiroo and the Kiiroo Pearl2.
This allows for a variety of devices and connecting with multiple kinds of partners.
Pros
- Classic design
- Versatile
- Bi-directional communication
- Responsive to partner’s touch
- Pairs with a variety of Kiiroo toys
- Waterproof
Cons
- Not safe to submerge in water, so not suitable for bath or shower play
Frequently Asked Questions
What are wifi sex toys?
If you’re new to purchasing sex toys, you might wonder what even counts as a sex toy, let alone a wifi one.
Basically, sex toys are any objects designed to enhance sexual pleasure or arousal. Wifi sex toys are sex toys designed to connect partners through the internet or Bluetooth adaptors.
Popular sex toys for people with vaginas include rabbit vibrators, wands, vibrating panties, and bullet vibrators.
Dildos, also known as dongs, are penis-shaped toys that can provide pleasure to people with vaginas or those who enjoy anal penetration.
Popular sex toys for people with penises include cock rings, masturbators/sleeves, sex dolls, and pocket pussies.
For those who enjoy anal play, butt plugs, anal beads, and g-spot vibrators are common choices.
Of course, people with any kind of genitals are free to use whatever kind of toys they want for whatever kind of pleasure gets them off.
Wifi sex toys simply take these basic forms and enhance the experience through internet connection.
Sometimes this means that toys will interact with partnered devices at a distance for mutual pleasure.
Other times, this means that toys will have a virtual reality component or hook up to adult entertainment content platforms.
Do you have to be in a long-distance relationship to use wifi sex toys?
Absolutely not! As they say, distance makes the heart grow fonder.
If it sounds exciting to you, you can add an element of distance and surprise to the bedroom by having your partner control a toy from the other room or even from a whole other place.
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, WiFi sex toys can be a great way to connect sexually and bond emotionally.
It can be fun to go online shopping for sex toys together when you live too far apart to visit the adult toy shop together.
Still, it’s not a requirement for using wifi sex toys, just one situation of many where these items are useful.
How do I know what type of wifi sex toy to purchase for myself?
Buying sex toys is a very personal, intimate process, so you only know what type of sex toy to buy for yourself. If you’ve never bought sex toys before, you should start by doing your research.
You can ask friends or your partner what type of sex toys they enjoy or have enjoyed in the past.
If you’re too shy to ask other people what to use, you can always take a deep dive into the internet.
Once you’ve gotten some research under your belt, you can start searching for toys that might interest you.
If you have a local sex toy retailer, you can also ask the employees at their store.
Usually, sex shop employees are passionate about the products they sell, not to mention knowledgeable.
They’ve helped plenty of people through their first sexy time product purchase and they’ll be happy to help you out, too.
One perk of asking adult store employees about products is that they can help you navigate around issues such as allergies, sensitivities, and features you would like to avoid.
While some toys might look simple enough for beginners, they can be deceptively intense or complicated to use.
Especially when you’re buying sex toys online, you might find that a product’s size or intensity is greater than what the advertisement showed.
Six inches might not sound like a large dildo, but for the uninitiated, it can be overwhelming.
Of course, don’t let your beginner status keep you from exploring.
If you know that you are going to like vibrators with high settings or that you would prefer dildos with greater girth, don’t be afraid to purchase them at first.
You can always return them, exchange them, or opt for a smaller one next time after you learn how you respond to them.
Do you need any special skills or equipment to use wifi sex toys?
In most cases, you’ll only need a willingness to learn, wifi or Bluetooth connection, and a set of instructions.
For some more advanced toys or Wi-Fi toys that require connection to a specific app, you might need some more knowledge.
Still, for toys that are more advanced, a set of instructions and plenty of information is available to help you figure them out.
Once you download the app or connect the wifi sex toys to the appropriate network, you’ll be ready to rock your world.
