The thought of wearing a vibrator in public might be a bit of a lark in that it’s something that one doesn’t do in polite company, even though you may have entertained the idea.
When it comes down to it, wearing a vibrator in public can be an exciting experience that gives you the release of an orgasm when you need it most.
You can also use it in conjunction with a trusted partner by giving them the remote control when the two of you are out in public.
No partner? No problem! You get to control your own orgasmic destiny by choosing when and where to turn it on.
Just pay attention to your surroundings, the people around you, and what you happen to be doing in order to be discreet.
The goal of having an orgasm in a public setting is to not let anyone know what’s going on in your panties and let them wonder why you’ve got a Mona Lisa smile on your face.
Here are some tips on how to use a wearable vibrator in public and get away with it!
Details to Consider When Picking a Wearable Vibrator
Most wearable vibrators are designed to stimulate the clitoris through a vibrating or sucking action, but there are insertable designs that are held in place with a harness.
You can also find panty vibrators that go from front to back and cover all of your sensitive areas for the ultimate pleasure.
Personal taste dictates what type and design you ultimately decide to wear while in public, and there are no right or wrongs when it comes to your choice.
Start out with a vibrator that’s strong, but not aggressive. You need to get some experience under your belt in order to get away with your personal pleasure in a public place.
Read the reviews of the vibrators that catch your interest and focus on the details users are sharing. You’re looking for information that’s agreed upon or demonstrates that users have had a common experience with the vibrator.
This gives you better insight into how the panty vibe works along with features you may or may not like.
How to Wear a Panty Vibrator in Public Without Worry
Panty vibrators are designed with fasteners that keep your vibe from falling out while you wear one, but you still want to wear garments that help keep them in place.
The combination of a strong fastener and tight garments just about eliminates the potential for unwanted exposure.
Clitoral stimulator-style vibrators are shaped to match the contours of the area between your thighs, enabling you to comfortably hold it in place with your legs. However, you still have to move around, and this can cause the vibrator to wiggle out of place.
Fortunately, manufacturers have thought of this issue and have placed a magnet on the back of the vibe. Simply put the vibe in place on the inside of your panties, place the other half of the magnet on the outside of your panties, and go about your business.
You’ll want to wear tight underwear in order to keep the vibe snug against your body. Tights can also help, and they can be worn under a skirt or pants without anyone being the wiser as to why you’re wearing them.
For the ultimate in security, wear panties with a lining that’s open on one end so you can slip the vibrator into the pocket and keep it in place.
And if none of these options make you feel comfortable, you can find panty vibes that come with a harness that goes over your hips and around your waist and lies discreetly under your clothing.
Panties that have vibrators built into them are an option, but they can be limited in terms of size, cut, and adjustment. That’s not to say you shouldn’t consider them as an option because they have a convenient form factor.
Again, read the reviews on this type of wearable vibrator before you buy, so you have an idea of what to expect when you put them on.
Consider Your Surroundings Before You Flip the Switch
One of the best uses for a panty vibe is when you’re attending a boring event that you can’t get out of, much less use your phone for a distraction. The issue here is one of how closely you have to sit next to other people in the room.
It’s not a good idea to put on a wearable vibrator for an office meeting or when you’re attending a conference and people aren’t observing social distancing. The main reason to leave the panty vibe in your purse during an event or meeting is noise.
Even the quietest of vibes will emit noise. Normally, the noise is drowned out by ambient noise in the setting, but when the room gets quiet and people are focused, the noise of the vibrator might become noticeable.
You want a vibrator that says it’s no louder than 50db, but you need to make sure that it’s quiet. A manufacturer can make the claim that the vibrator is quiet and is perfect for use in public, but their idea of quiet may not meet your needs.
Test your vibe before going out in public with it to find out how loud it can be and make plans accordingly. The goal is to not draw attention to yourself at the worst possible moment.
Otherwise, feel free to turn it on and turn up the dial when you’re somewhere noisy such as the grocery store or mall.
No one’s going to hear the buzz unless they’re right next to you, and even then, they may dismiss it as the sound of a phone that’s set to vibrate.
Make Sure You Can Control the Vibrator Remotely
Wearable vibrators come with a remote control that allows you to change the intensity at a moment’s notice and prevent an emergency run to the bathroom to get the vibe under control. Never wear a vibrator without having a remote control within reach.
The remote can be in the form of a physical remote that’s smaller than a credit card or the vibe itself has Bluetooth connectivity with an app. You want to be able to control your vibe so you can prevent the situation from getting out of control.
The main reasons you need to keep the remote control handy are in case you get overwhelmed by the sensation or if it gets knocked out of position. You can easily remove the vibrator when you’re in a private setting, but not so much when you’re in public.
There may not be a bathroom nearby that you can duck into so you can take out the vibrator in private. Being able to shut down the vibrator quickly is key to retaining your composure along with making a quick exit.
Dominance Play With a Partner
There’s something delicious about giving your partner the remote control to your wearable vibrator when you’re out and about. As previously mentioned, many wearable vibrators come with Bluetooth connectivity.
That means you can connect your vibe to your phone and let your partner control the vibe through an app. You can give your partner the opportunity to turn up the intensity when you least expect it if you so desire.
Connectivity is also a wonderful tool to help connect couples who are in a long-distance relationship or when one partner travels frequently and opportunities for intimacy are scarce.
Rules should be established before combining dominance play with a partner and wearing a vibrator in public. Some of the rules can include:
- When and where you’ll wear the panty vibe.
- The amount of intensity you’ll tolerate during play.
- How long your partner gets to use the remote.
Don’t hesitate to add your own rules to the list. You are in charge of and in control of your body at all times, and your partner needs to respect your limits.
Sometimes a partner may break the rules because they’re caught up in the moment and forget themselves, but the occasional slip-up is forgivable.
What you don’t want is your partner going overboard with the controls at inopportune moments. That’s why putting down rules and setting boundaries before the play begins are important.
Using a panty vibrator with a partner gives rise to all kinds of possibilities.
You can act out a scene you’ve wanted to play, enjoy the feeling of being on the edge not knowing when they’re going to turn it on, and challenge your self-control when you’re talking to someone else and your partner turns on the vibrator.
You get to have intimate moments in public without anyone being the wiser as to what’s really going on between the two of you.
Long-distance relationships can take advantage of the Bluetooth/app connectivity aspect of a wearable vibrator and engage in intimacy across the miles. All you need to do is keep your phone near you with the Bluetooth turned on for this to work.
Add in a phone call to your partner so they can listen to you react as they adjust the intensity and pattern of the vibe. The two of you may not be able to have physical intimacy on demand, but you can still bond together through remote play with a panty vibrator.
As with any other type of sex play, the most important rule is that your partner needs to respect you saying “no” or “stop”.
It’s fun being turned into a puddle of goo by your partner, but it’s not fun when it’s done in a public place where you’re trying to keep an eye on your surroundings and maintain your composure.
The goal of using a panty vibe in public is to have a salacious secret in which no one knows what you’re up to except you and your partner, not have a paroxysm of pleasure where everyone can see it.
Have Fun!
Wearing a panty vibe is akin to sneaking a cookie out of the jar when you’re not supposed to have one. Except now you’re an adult in charge of your own sexual decisions, and walking around in public while pleasuring yourself discreetly is your choice.
You’re still doing something sneaky, but it’s a no harm, no foul kind of thing, and as long as the wearable vibrator is kept firmly in place, no one will know what’s going on, and that’s the thrill!
The purpose of any vibrator is to provide pleasure and release to the user. Having an orgasm is one of the best ways to release tension from the body and enjoy the resulting endorphin rush that makes you relax and feel good.
Wearing a panty vibe in public adds the thrill of exhibitionism even though only you (and your partner if they’re included) know what’s really going on.
Making the conscious decision to put on a wearable vibrator and go out into the public is empowering.
You’re showing yourself that you can take care of your own need for pleasure at a moment’s notice, be bold about it, and not care about what others think if you happen to have an orgasm in the middle of perusing the produce.
This is the perfect opportunity to use your imagination as you go about your business while wearing a panty vibe. Let your mind wander when you’re doing something boring and visualize a sexual encounter with someone you’ve had a crush on as you sit at the laundromat.
Maybe go to a party or a bar with your partner and have them fall into the background to mess with the vibrator intensity as you’re talking to someone else. The ways you can use a wearable vibrator in public are endless.
Ultimately, this is all about you and your pleasure. No one can take that away from you, especially when they don’t know what’s going on.
Buy a wearable vibrator that works for you, provides the intensity you desire, and you can feel confident wearing out in public. But most of all, have fun!
