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Lovense Flexer Review: Perfect Vibrator for Outdoor Play?

Are you looking for a new and innovative vibrator that has powerful stimulation?

Then, the Lovense Flexer is the answer for you.

This toy sits in place so you can enjoy its strong vibration.

Once in place, you can use an app on your device to change the intensity.

You have complete control.

Continue reading this in-depth review to learn everything about the Lovense Flexer.


What Is the Lovense Flexer?

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The Lovense Flexer is a vibrator that you can wear in your underwear. It is similar to many other types of underwear vibrators that I have tried.

Although I found one major difference: the Lovense Flexer has an additional arm that’s perfect for internal stimulation.

One of the great things about this arm is how it mimics the way human fingers curl back and forth.


The Lovense Flexer has some unique features that set it apart from other vibrators, even those made by Lovense.

I found one of the most interesting parts of the Flexer is the design. Once I inserted it, it felt very similar to human fingers.

While it’s not the same, it is close so you won’t notice.

The design gives you comfort when you insert the round bulbous part of the vibrator into your vagina until roughly three inches of it is inside.

There is a possibility that it may not hit your clit because all bodies are different. This makes it a great toy for some but not for all.

I found that the design is ideal and comfortable for most.

Another consideration is that you need to wear tight underwear to keep it in. Otherwise, the toy will fall out.

Manual Controls

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There are two ways you can control the vibrator. One of these gives you manual control.

The power button is close to the charging port. Holding the button for three seconds turns on the Flexer. After that, you can choose between three vibrations.

I found that the vibrations have steady pressure. The pressure options are intense, medium, and gentle.

You can also feel the vibration in addition to the pressure. It has five pulse patterns.

However, there is no manual control for finger movement. You must use the application on your phone to control the finger.

Control of the Application

When you begin to control the vibrator with the mobile app, it starts to get interesting.

You may find that you get the most explosive experience from your vibrator by using the app.

Lovense has found a way to push the technological boundaries with its toys.

The integrated remote control can be used with a free app on Android or Apple devices. From your phone, you can create customized patterns.

You can even share the patterns if you want. In addition, you can get your toy to respond to music, sounds, or controls on the app.

If you want to make things spicier, you can allow someone else to power your toy from far away. For example, consider when your partner is away, and you two want to be intimate.

You can even do it if you don’t have a smartphone. There is a desktop version of the app; you can use any computer or mobile device that is Bluetooth enabled.

You must follow a few easy steps to connect, and you are off and running.


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Regardless if you like gentle throbbing or intense pulsing, the Lovense Flexer has just what you desire. I am sure you will find that the Flexer hits the spot – just like I did.

The most powerful feature the Flexer provides is how it stimulates the clitoris. It is strong and incredibly responsive.

You may not think the Flexer feels like actual fingering in person, but it gets pretty close.

Even though the intensity of the fingering is not the same, you may not even miss it.

The inner portion of the vibrator gets deep and fills you up, but remains comfortable throughout your session.


The higher you push the power on the Flexer, the more noise it produces. When you turn the power all the way up, it has a buzzy tone to it.

This prevents the vibrator from being used comfortably in public. In my opinion, the sound coming from the vibrator is one of the most unappealing aspects of this toy.


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One great advantage of this vibrator is the charging capability. You can recharge it by plugging in the battery pack.

You no longer have to worry about batteries dying just as you climax. It takes about one hour to charge the vibrator fully.

After a full charge, you will get about two hours of play. When the toy is in standby mode, you can go for many hours without having to charge the toy.

This toy does not have the same battery life as some of the other toys from this brand.

How to Use It

Of all the Lovense toys, the Flexer is one of the easiest to use, even by two people simultaneously.

Before you can get your party started, there are a few things you need to consider about your new toy. First, you should always make sure you are well-lubricated.

When you use a lubricant, be sure to apply it to the head of the toy. You also want to be sure to use a lubricant that is appropriate for use in your vagina.

This means using a lubricant that has a pH between 3.8 and 4.5. You do not want to use an unsafe water-based lubricant with a pH of 6.5 or higher.

Once you have selected your lubricant and are oiled up, it’s time to connect your toy to the app.

This is the best way to have unlimited control and access to the features of your toy.

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One feature to be aware of with this toy is that it does not become flexible until you turn it on.

Despite the toy’s name, you cannot bend the internal arm anytime you want. You should also know that the toy will not stay in place on its own.

One of the best features of this app is that it has a wide variety of intensities and patterns, many of which you can try. You can start with one and work your way up from there.

An experienced user suggests starting with the lowest intensity and slowly increasing intensity.

Once you insert the vibrator and get it in place, you can take your party (or panty) on the go.

How to Use the App

Once you have your vibrator in standby mode, you can link it to the app. You must have the latest version of the software downloaded.

Without the latest version of the app, you won’t be able to manage the fingering control. Many users feel that this toy’s fingering feature makes this vibrator worth purchasing.

When you open the app, you see an icon in the upper right corner. Click the icon, and the app automatically detects the Flexer toy.

You can verify detection when the name and icon of your toy displays. Once you select “DONE”, you are able to create your own patterns.

The discover icon allows you to explore all the available options.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How Do I Clean the Lovense Flexer?

The Lovense Flexer is silicone, so you can feel comfortable inserting it into the body. In addition, the material prevents yeast and bacteria from growing.

The good news is that you can use regular soap and water to clean your toy; you can clean it in any sink.

Be sure to wash it before you use it the first time. After that, wash it after every use.

When you clean it, scrub the silicone with soap and wash it all off. Wash it well.

How Do I Care for the Lovense Flexer?

This vibrator is magnetic rechargeable. You want to keep your toy in standby mode when not in use.

When you keep it on standby, the battery will not drain. This ensures you get the longest amount of time between charges.

Does the Lovense Flexer Have a Warranty?

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Lovense provides one-year warranties on every one of its toys. This warranty covers all working parts that may impact your toy’s operation.

The warranty does not include any deterioration caused by normal wear and tear.

In addition, the warranty does not cover any problems with the toy due to neglect, misuse, or accident. If you try to take the toy apart, it voids the warranty.

If you have to make a warranty claim, you need proof of the issue, account details, and order details.

Is There an Alternative to the Lovense Flexer?

There are some alternatives to the Lovense Flexer. However, other users found that the best qualities of the toys mentioned below have been combined in Flexer.

Lush 3

For a long time, this was considered the most powerful vibrator, but Flexer is a good match for power. In addition, the Lush 3 battery lasts almost twice as long as Flexer.


Ferri is a panty vibrator – and an incredibly popular one. It stays in place even when you’re moving, due to its strong magnet.

As a result, it has a powerful vibration and intensity. In addition, it has a unique ergonomic design that hits the clitoris directly.



The Dolce is the toy that is most similar to the Flexer. They are both intended to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris.

While you can insert both, the Dolce is bulky and more difficult to wear.

The Dolce, however, is also more flexible and can be bent. Once inside, it molds to fit your shape and size.

Pros of the Lovense Flexer

  • It stimulates both the clitoris and G-spot.
  • It is comfortable.
  • Waterproof.
  • Intense vibration.
  • Capable of long-distance play.
  • Affordable price.
  • High-quality materials.
  • Safe to use.
  • Easy to clean.

Cons of the Lovense Flexer

  • Gets louder as the intensity increases.
  • Not discreet.
  • Does not stay in place well.
  • Best for use in the bedroom only.

Lovense Flexer: Overall Thoughts

The Lovense Flexer has a lot to offer – as long as you stay in the privacy of your room. While it is a panty vibrator, it stays in place best when lying down.

You must have tight panties if you want to walk around with them. Even then, there is a possibility it may still not stay in place.

The Lovense Flexer delivers vibration and pulsation just like you would expect. If you like a lot of pressure, this toy is for you.

Remember, it cannot mimic the soft touch of a finger.

The ability to stay connected and intimate with your partner no matter the physical distance gives this vibrator an edge.

The possibilities are endless, making the Lovense Flexer worth checking out.

Ready for something new? Check out their website and try the Lovense Flexer today.

Written by William LeClair

The LovenseFAN Team led by William LeClair is an unofficial collective of experts and power users, each deeply immersed in the world of Lovense products. With combined experiences including working with leading SexTech companies, following the success of Lovense since the very first Indiegogo campaign and years of hands-on use, the team offers a comprehensive understanding of the company's mission and products. Dive into their insights and guides to explore the multifaceted world of Lovense and discover the future of Sex.

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