How to Use the Lovense Remote App to Control Your Toy?

Adding toys to your love life is a great way to spice things up and make things more interesting. Of course, many toys are only to be used in-person, limiting their overall abilities. However, Lovense toys were designed to work with a unique Lovense app that takes your long-distance love-making and personal use to an all-new level.

What is the Lovense Remote app, and how do you use it? The Lovense Remote App is an easy-to-use application that allows you or your partner to control your Lovense sex toys remotely.

Use it for solo play or connect with your partner to spice up your love life. Choose between vibration levels, video chat, in-app messaging with your partner, syncing with other toys and your music.

Interested in what all the Lovense toys and apps can do for you in your love life? You are right to be curious, and we’re going to break down all the must-know information about Lovense toys and the app.

Find out which toys can be used with the app, what the app can do, and how you can get the most out of your new tech-enhanced sex toys.


What is the Lovense Remote App?

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Essentially the Lovense App is the sex-geared app that is going to change your life. This innovative application for smartphones and computers allows you to take your sex toy game to the next level, whether you’re pleasuring yourself alone underneath the sheets or spicing up your marriage from across the country.

The best thing about the Lovense app is it’s so easy to use, you can spend less time trying to figure out some intricate app and more time switching between vibration and contraction settings to bring you to the best orgasm of your life.

The Lovense app is available in the Apple iStore and Google Play Store, making it work for most iOS and Android products. You can also download the app on most Macs or use the USB Bluetooth adapter sold by Lovense to connect to any Windows PC. The adaptor is easy to use and can be purchased starting at only $5.

Since the toys are designed to be used via Bluetooth, they are easy to connect, and you can begin controlling your toys right away. If you have your significant other download the app and add them as a friend, they’ll be able to control your toy from a distance, as well.

When you download the app, you will have easy control over your toy. Just some of the many things you can do are:

  • Control your toy with your phone screen.
  • Use a traditional remote control.
  • Access long-distance control options.
  • Access unlimited vibration patterns.
  • Sync your device to music.
  • Turn on sound-activated controls.

Which Toys are Available to Use With the Lovense App?

By now you must be wondering which of Lovense’s excellent range of sex toys will work with the Lovense app?

Lovense carries all of your traditional options from vibrators to masturbators, offering items for both men and women. The toys carried by Lovense are some of the best on the market today and made from the highest quality materials.

All of the toys from Lovense come with a one-year warranty as long as they are used correctly and cared for properly. Let’s take a look at some of the best toys available from Lovense.

The Top 8 Remote-Controlled Toys for Use With Lovense App

1. Nora – A Classic Vibrator with a Twist

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A true result of over 10 years of development, Nora is designed to exceed your personal needs and expectations. The hardware and software for the device have been continually perfected using past user recommendations to create the best vibrator possible. The exceptional features of these devices are:

  • Easy-to-clean material.
  • 4 hours of continuous play.
  • Five days of standby time.
  • Made from ABS plastic and high-quality silicone.


2. Lush 2 – A Wearable Device Controlled from Anywhere

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Lush 2 is one of the most powerful Bluetooth remote control vibrators you will find on the market today and has the longest control range of any other sextoy in its niche on the market. The wearable is nearly silent when inserted, which means you can use it practically anywhere with no detection, even in public.

It is far more discreet than vibrating panties and four times more powerful than most vibrators, love eggs, or panties on the market today. This wearable is unique as it can be controlled from:

  • At a 360° standing range:
    • from 45 feet away in front of the wearer.
    • from 30 feet behind the wearer.
  • A sitting range from 20 to 30 feet around the wearer.
  • Internet control from any distance.


3. Hush – The First Teledildonic Butt Plug

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Hush is unlike anything else on the market; it’s a butt plug that can be controlled from anywhere! It is the most versatile, vibrating butt plug on the market today and is completely app-controlled. Better yet, you will be in complete control of the range of power.

The vibrations range from light to strong, and they come in two sizes to fit your comfort level: small at 1.5 inches, and medium at 1.75 inches. The Hush is uniquely designed to be:

  • 100% silicone-based material.
  • latex, rubber, and phthalates free.
  • spiraled, where the neck traps lube near your sphincter, leading to easy removal – no matter how long the session.
  • built to last, with an optimized base that’s comfortable but designed to stay safe.


4. Ambi – A Uniquely Curved Vibrating Wand

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The Ambi takes your traditional vibrating wand and revamps it to something you have never seen before, offering a unique shape and style.

This is great for solo use and can be used during sex in various positions to spice things up even more. It is comfortable to hold and far easier to use than a traditional bullet vibrator.

The curves of the device compliment your own and can help you reach climax quicker than ever before.


5. Domi – A Powerful Mini Wand

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The vibrations on this mini wand far exceed others on the market today, despite it being half the size of most competitors.

It has a unique, dual-rotating head that adds power without increasing the size or requiring unwanted cords. There is a huge range of vibrating levels, and it is designed to be easy to hold, making it perfect for personal use.

The wand comes with an optional light ring, which is great for use with a significant other or video use. Also, you can add female or male attachments to the device to give you the ultimate pleasure.


6. Osci – Provides Ultimate G-Spot Stimulation

osci remote controlled toy

Osci has a patent-pending motor that moves in and out to deliver a unique and powerful stimulation that you will not find in traditional toys.

The oscillating mechanism enables pinpoint G-spot stimulation with his curved tip to hit your unique G-spot location. The power button is positioned for solo play, or you can easily use it with a partner.

The Osci is part of the programmable line, which means you can program the button cycle using the Lovense remote app. You can add up to 3 personalized vibration levels and create ten patterns that will be repeated when you use the device.


7. Max 2 – Revolutionary Male Masturbator

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This masturbator, unlike others on the market today, is designed to accommodate most sizes and stimulate you while you stroke.

The device itself is gender-neutral, but a vagina sleeve can be purchased for additional costs if this is what you would like. The innovative software of the device is the most realistic possible, offering local and long-distance control. The device itself is uniquely designed, featuring:

  • a multiple-sensation sleeve.
  • an extended vibrator.
  • 360-degree contractions.
  • an adjustable air vent that allows you to control the suction.


8. Edge – The First Adjustable Prostate Massager

edge remote controlled toy

The prostate massager features dual vibrators and an optimized neck that ensures it stays in place during sex. The head is completely adjustable, which also ensures it hits the right spot for most men. As with all Lovense toys, it has strong vibrations that are sure to drive you wild.

The Edge is designed to be comfortable for both beginners and advanced users. You can completely customize your vibration levels with the app, ensuring your comfort throughout.


How to Connect Your Lovense App to Your Phone

Connecting your devices is quicker and easier than you might think! By following these simple instructions, you can connect your preferred sex toys to the Lovense Remote app and get to the action:

  1. Download and open the Lovense app on your laptop, desktop, or smartphone.
  2. Make sure that the indicator light on your sex toy is blinking, so the app can locate it.
  3. At the top right of your screen, click on the icon that says ‘Link,’ which will send you to the screen with ‘My Toys.’
  4. Click on the ‘+’ button. By clicking this button, the app will begin to search for all of your available sex toys that are ready to connect.
  5. Once the application has found your preferred sex toy, the name of the device will appear on the app. From here you can either toggle the device to turn on or off. Remember: if the toggle icon is pink, the device is ‘on.’ If the toggle icon is grey, then it is ‘off.’
  6. After the device of choice has been found and turned on or off, select the ‘done’ button located in the top right-hand corner.
  7. If your preferred sex toy is connected, you will notice a pink circle in the upper right-hand corner. However, if you do not see this pink icon and you need to reconnect, simply press the link icon that you did in step 1.

connect lovense app phonePro tip: If you’re struggling to connect your Bluetooth device, follow these troubleshooting guidelines.

How You Can Give Up or Take Control From Your Partner on the App

Switching it up with your partner? It’s easier than you think to switch controls. This is something crucial to keep in mind if you’re in a long-distance relationship, and you need to go back-and-forth between being in control and letting your lover control you.

  1. Begin by selecting the long-distance tab located in the bottom middle of the screen. This is a tab that you will want to get familiar with if you’re in a long-distance relationship, as this is where all control will be held between partners and their sex toys.
  2. Choose your partner that you are connecting sex toys with. Remember that in order for this specific function to work, both of you must have an account ready on the Lovense app. If you need to add your partner, simply press the ‘+’ option that is located at the top right.
  3. Select the ‘+’ icon that is located on the bottom right. This will open up all of the play options, aside from the messaging that’s already initiated at the bottom of you and your partner’s room.
  4. Locate the ‘Live Control’ button. If you see that this option is completely greyed out, then their toy is not connected. Before you can use the control feature, they will need to connect their device to the Lovense app. However, if you are the one with your toy and it is connected, your partner still has the option to control your device.
  5. Change the settings by selecting the ‘settings’ button. This is found inside the chat window with your partner. Here you will see several different available settings. Choose the one that is right for you and get ready to play.

How to Sync Music with the Lovense App

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One of the greatest features of the Lovense App is that you can sync your sex toy up with music. That means that vibrations and other features will go hand-in-hand with your favorite tunes, which is something you will not find with most other sex toys on the market. But how can you set this unique feature up?

For Android Devices:

  1. Begin by ensuring all music is downloaded into the ‘Music’ folder located on your phone. It should be saved to the internal memory of your phone.
  2. All of the music in the ‘Music’ folder should appear directly into the app.
  3. Choose the music and get ready to roll!

For iPhone Devices:

  • Begin by logging into iTunes, then connect your iPhone.
  • Move and drop all of your favorite music into the folder named ‘Songs’ on iTunes.
  • Click on the ‘Music’ selection, then hit ‘Sync Music.’ All of your music will automatically sync onto your phone.
  • Open the Music application on your iPhone device. All music that was synced on iTunes should show up on your iPhone. If you need to download the songs, select the download icon (which looks like a cloud with an arrow pointing down).
  • Open the Lovense Remote App. All of the music that was downloaded onto your iPhone should appear in the Lovense app.

What the Lovense App Can Do

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Now that we know how to connect this handy app, the next question that comes to mind is, what can this app actually do? Is it even worth setting up in the first place? You bet it is.

Here are some of the top reasons to connect your sex toy to the Lovense app:

Close-range control

This easy-to-use close-range control is a must-have for when you’re playing by yourself and want some hands-free fun, but it’s also great for passing off to your partner and letting them take control from across the room. Do it in the bedroom or switch it up and get kinky at your favorite restaurant. (A lot of Lovense toys are discreet and quiet so you can get busy anywhere).

Long-distance control

This is ideal for long-distance couples that want to give their partner a grand O without actually being there. Connect your accounts together and get ready for a long-distance experience that’s bound to feel like the real deal by the time you’re done! (Que the post-sex sweat beads, please).

Completely customize vibrations

The same old same can get boring whether you are near or far, and the Lovense app knows this. This is why the app allows you to program and customize vibrations so you can switch up the style and intensity for a fantastic time.

Video chat with your partner

Why use multiple apps to get the same experience? Using the Lovense App, you can bring pleasure to your partner and actually watch the experience while it is happening. This is not only thrilling but incredibly sexy, as well. I think we can all agree the orgasm face is one of the sexiest faces any human can make, right?

Message your partner

Can’t video chat right now? No worries. You can still take your love-making to the next level with some sexy texts. It’s the perfect platform to bring fantasies to life using just one hand.

Sync vibrations to music

Your favorite tunes will bring you joy for a variety of reasons, but now they can bring you memories of pure ecstasy, too. Sync up your fave jams with some intense vibrations to have a fun and truly intoxicating night of fun.

Use alone or as a couple

It’s the perfect app for revving up your solo play, but it can also sync with your partner to bring the two of you close together, even when you’re hundreds of miles apart. What other sex toys can do that?

How to Use Lovense App as a Couple

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One thing that truly sets Lovense apart from other brands is their interactive toys that allow you to have long-distance sex with your significant other. The lack of intimacy is one of the biggest negatives to having a long-distance relationship, and something many couples do not make it through.

The team at Lovense has designed the perfect way to refuel the intimacy in your relationship, even hundreds of miles apart.

These long-distance sessions use the Nora and Max 2 toys offered from Lovense, though you can add other toys, as desired. The typical session using these two devices on the Lovense App will go something like this:

  1. Connect both toys to an internet-connected device that has the Lovense app downloaded. This can easily be done with any smartphone, or you can purchase the Bluetooth adapter and use your PC.
  2. Message or call your partner using the software when you are ready to be intimate. The software is fully functional, but you can use a separate video chat service like Skype. Regardless of which video site you use, you can still connect the toys to each other.
  3. When you are ready, begin using the toys as you desire. The toys will respond to your movements and send feedback to your partner. These toys are interactive, which means you can feel your partner’s touch in a way that was once impossible.

How Do Interactive Toys Work?

You may still be questioning how exactly the toys work together to create a new long-distance sex capability. Essentially, they play off of each other, and your device will control your partner’s. This is a great way to feel like you are in unison, as you would be during traditional intercourse, but you can be miles and miles apart.

  • For men, when you slide the masturbator onto your penis, your partner’s toy will begin rotating. The quicker your movements, the quicker her device will react.
  • As for women, as you move your vibrator, the Max 2 will pump air, which mimics vaginal contractions. In essence, the speed of your movements affects each other’s devices.

The devices have a very quick response time, and the built-in advanced sensors are extremely accurate. You are guaranteed to feel all of your partner’s actions. When you combine this with video, you will feel like you are actually together and not miles apart.

Frequently Asked Questions

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Can you block someone on the Lovense App?

So, your long-distance fling didn’t work out; that’s okay! There are plenty more fish in the sea. Your main concern may be deleting and blocking this person out of your memory, and while you know how to block quickly on Instagram, you might question the abilities of the Lovense App.

The good news is, you can block someone on the Lovense App by doing the following:

  • For new friend requests: simply hit the ‘decline’ option once you have received the request. It will then ask you if you would also like to block this contact, in which case you can accept or decline.
  • For existing friends: inside of the chat window between you and this contact, select the ‘settings’ tab. Here you will be able to select the ‘block this contact’ option on the menu.

Can you unblock someone on the Lovense App?

So, he came crawling back, and you are ready for a second chance, huh? Well, unblocking is just as simple as blocking.

  • To unblock your contact, simply go to the ‘settings’ option located in the app.
  • Select ‘blocked contacts’ from the menu, which will bring you to a list of blocked contacts.
  • Select who you would like to unblock, and they will reappear in your friend’s list.

Can my partner connect with a mobile device if I am using a computer?

Yes! While some apps won’t let you play together if you’re on different devices, the Lovense App is different. They know the importance of playing together no matter what type of electronic device you have, so they have made it easy to connect between smartphones and computers with ease.

Do you need a Bluetooth pairing code?

You may be asked for a Bluetooth pairing code when trying to connect your device, but you do not need it. All you need to do is use the app to search for your specific sex toy, and it will automatically pair without needing the Bluetooth code (or any other type of code for that matter).

Can you change your email address after signing up for an account?

Unfortunately, due to security risks, you are unable to change your email address that you signed up with. If you have misspelled your email address, forgot the password, or simply want to connect using a new email address, you will need to create a brand-new account and pair it with your device.

Can you sync a Spotify account with the Lovense App?

All your favorite tunes on Spotify? Of course, they are! The Lovense App makes it easy to sync up Spotify with your sex toy. Just make sure you are a premium member on Spotify in order for the music to sync up to the app. (Spotify will not be able to connect to the Lovense App unless you are a premium member.)


The Lovense App makes it easy for single-use and couples to explore their desires and create a thrilling night they will never forget.

With the easy-to-use app, you can control the speed and intensity of vibrations, add music, chat, and video chat with your partner, plus so much more.

The app is a game-changer and something everyone will appreciate with their new Lovense sex toy.


Written by William LeClair

The LovenseFAN Team led by William LeClair is an unofficial collective of experts and power users, each deeply immersed in the world of Lovense products. With combined experiences including working with leading SexTech companies, following the success of Lovense since the very first Indiegogo campaign and years of hands-on use, the team offers a comprehensive understanding of the company's mission and products. Dive into their insights and guides to explore the multifaceted world of Lovense and discover the future of Sex.


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  1. Hey, my friend across the country has the Lush 2 and wanted me to use the Lovesense app to get her off while we exchanged no-no words over the phone. I’m trying to figure out if there’s a way to use patterns in the long distance feature, as the only way I’ve found to actually control her toy is the manual slider, which is pretty limited and just makes my thumbs tired, while being pretty difficult to keep up while I’m going at it myself. Is there a way to make this happen? Thanks.

    • click on the plus sign next to the text box and you will see the option for a pattern. patterns can be downloaded or created

  2. I have a lush 2. I just want to know can the other person see when i’m online? And if i have 2 people on it. Can they both see who is using the app?

  3. I got a new phone went to connect my lush 2 to it and it says my lush is rejecting Bluetooth connection pairing. It’s Bluetooth is 5.0 and I’ve used with my other phone but can’t get it to work on this one. Any ideas?

  4. Hi! Me and my partner recently got the Lush 2. And we’re having trouble getting it working long range. Which is why i bought it. Basically the live control option is grayed out despite her having the Lush 2 connected and us both being on the app. Any recommendations?

  5. Hi! I saw in the porn. Some girl used lush 1. I hear like ting..ting… tang tang… her body was shaking. Could you tell me how can set up like that pleas !!!

  6. Is there a way to see profiles of other lovense app users? Like a general description or thumbnails of other app users.

  7. You push this app as for married couples. This would be great since my husband travels a lot. Instead this app enables husbands another way to cheat on their wives when they are on the road. Lovense is like a FB Sex hookup site. Lovense in even in fantasy land, 3dx ..It does nothing for a real life relationships and gives the narcissistic cybersex porn addict another way to love bomb their skanks.

  8. Can you program a sessions that give you changing settings over period of time, so that tou can layback and just enjoy? Or download and use sessions programmed by others?

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