When you’re looking for ways to spice up your love life, sex toys can provide just what you need.
And while solo play is always fun, having your partner involved can make it even steamier.
With that in mind, we’ve gathered 11 great toys that you and your partner can enjoy together.
Lush 3: Great for Public Play
If you’re an adventurous couple looking to spice up your love life, the Lush 3 is for you.
It’s a very discreet internal vibrator that can be controlled by your partner remotely.
Its design has an outer element that hugs the body, keeping it in place while you’re out running errands, shopping, or going about your day.
Lush 3 users love that it gives the partner the power to tease and please the wearer from a distance – or while standing next to them on the grocery aisle.
As the vibrations start gently and build, the wearer has time to realize what’s going on and attempt to maintain themselves in public – a game that both partners enjoy.
The Lush 3 doesn’t provide clitoral stimulation, which is a bit of a bummer for some users. However, the fun and games – especially in public – tend to far outweigh that disadvantage.
Pros:
- Quiet for discreet public pleasure
- Comfortable enough to wear throughout errands and chores
- Partner can control via Bluetooth from other locations
- Waterproof
- Lightweight
- Long battery life
Cons:
- External arm does not provide clitoral stimulation
- Internal bulb might not fit everyone’s body to provide maximum sensation
- Can take some time to recharge
Diamo: Perfect Pal for Extended Pleasure
Want to extend your love-making time? The Diamo can help.
The C-ring slows blood flow to the male member, putting off the orgasm until as long as possible – something both partners appreciate.
One charge can give you over two hours of fun and games in the bedroom. It’s also waterproof, so you can begin with a clean toy every time.
This C-ring wraps around the male in more than one direction. The vibrating arm can sit on top of the penis, allowing for some clitoral stimulation.
Or it can be placed around to sit below the penis, letting the man enjoy some vibration action.
Like other Lovense toys, the Diamo is Bluetooth-enabled.
It gives your partner some power of your pleasure. It also syncs to music and allows for several vibration patterns.
Additionally, it responds to voices. As you and your partner get vocal, the intensity of the vibration increases.
You might need to get a little loud with it, though – it will be in the midst of some lower action and may not pick up your voice easily.
Pros:
- Waterproof
- Great for both partners’ pleasure
- Long battery life
- Intensifies when it hears your voice
- Hours of fun
- Gives your partner some power
Cons:
- Only one button to control settings, so you have to cycle through
- Voice response typically needs loud voices to pick up
Ferri: Perfect for a Rousing Morning
If you’re searching for a pleasant and energizing way to start your day, try the Ferri.
This clitoris-pleasing Bluetooth-enabled toy allows you to set a “Good Morning” alarm that can pleasure you awake and forego the intrusive alarm clocks.
And you and your partner can have a beautiful start to the day.
It’s also great for public play.
You simply detach the magnetic plate, place the toy inside your panties, and then attach the magnetic plate from the outside of your underwear to keep it in place.
Imagine walking your dog in the morning or heading to the coffee shop before work. You can be riding a sexual high with no one the wiser.
If you want to be really daring, you can make those dull morning meetings way more exciting – just be sure to turn the setting on low in the app so no one hears in those quiet moments.
Your partner can control the toy via app, making long-distance loving even spicier.
And as everyone enjoys a different level of vibration, it allows you to customize up to 10 patterns in the app.
As a bonus, it’s completely waterproof.
This means you can enjoy shower time, bath time, a refreshing swim in the pool – and be as messy as you wish – without worrying about destroying your favorite silicone friend.
Pros:
- Lightweight and waterproof
- Very discreet
- Magnetic plate helps toy stay in place – no need to hold it or reposition
- Customizable vibration patterns
- “Good Morning” alarm
- Makes long-distance relationships easier
- 60-minute charge provides up to 195 minutes of fun – or 100 hours of drawer time so you can always be ready for your next adventure
Cons:
- Only one color option, which isn’t necessarily a deal breaker
- Magnetic charger won’t charge unless it’s in the right position, so if the charging light isn’t on, you have to rotate the charger
Flexer: Double Dynamite Experience
Some ladies prefer clitoral stimulation. Others prefer G-spot stimulation. But with the Flexer, you don’t have to choose!
The Flexer has a bulbous head to insert that allows for both vibration and the “come hither” motion on the G-spot.
The external arm lines right up with the clitoris to vibrate it into submission.
The three separate motors can be controlled independently in the app, so you – or your partner – can choose which area gets more attention.
Or you can let all three go wild while your partner stares delighted and turned on from across the room.
While this discreet and powerful toy gives couples the chance to get a little frisky in public, you should be choosy about where you use it.
While some other toys are whisper quiet, so you can get away with some fun just about anywhere, the Flexer provides a bit too much to contain that well.
Dance parties? Wear it!
Loud game nights with friends? Try it!
Quiet dinner parties with in-laws or meetings with bosses? Probably best not to try it.
Pros:
- Lightweight
- Insertable toy that stays in place
- Comfortable to wear all day – and night
- Easy to clean
- G-spot and clitoral stimulation
- Charges in 60 minutes
Cons:
- Not quiet enough for all public play
Gemini: Twin Fun for the Girls
Stimulating the nipples during foreplay is always fun, but it can be tough when your hands are busy elsewhere.
And it never fails that one nipple tends to get more attention than the other one.
That problem is solved with the Gemini vibrating nipple clamps.
These babies can take care of both the girls – hands-free – while you or your partner focus on other things.
And they can be synced up to operate with your other favorite toys, so you can be pleasured everywhere without lifting a finger – except to use the app.
And they can be attached to your partner, as well.
While they can certainly be used in public, they are a bit bulky.
Therefore, they will be difficult to hide if you go without a bra or are wearing a super sexy, revealing outfit. Padded bras are better for hiding.
They are also quiet enough to use in moderate settings.
Be sure you and your partner discuss what “moderate” noise levels are before he draws the wrong kind of attention to you in a crowd.
Pros:
- Great for males and females
- Bluetooth enabled
- Can sync up with other toys
- Hands-free pleasure
- Can be used discreetly in public with care
Cons:
- Screws for tightening/loosening might break easily, so use them with care
- A bit bulky
- Waterproof but not made for full submersion
Tenera: Best Suction on the Market
If clitoral stimulation is a must for you, you should give the Tenera clitoris suction toy a try.
It provides 5000 air pulses per minute, giving you all the suction power you need. It even provides little puffs of air to simulate your partner’s breathing.
It’s soft, which mimics your partner’s lips. And it provides kissing motions, so it feels like the real deal every time.
It can be controlled manually or through the app, allowing your partner to take the reins – while giving his mouth a break.
However, your partner must be within direct line of sight for it to work, so no operating it from another room unless you use the long-distance feature.
With this feature, though, you’ll need to be within five feet of your phone. That kind of cuts down on the spontaneous play, but the incredible action can still be worth it.
The biggest downside is that it takes about an hour to charge and only gives about an hour and a half of fun per charge.
And while the quiet operation would make for good public play, the toy has to be held – which is a bit hard to hide.
Pros:
- Intense suction
- Mimics partner’s breathing and mouth motions
- Can be paired delightfully with other toys
- Provides quiet fun for solo or couple play when others are around
Cons:
- Not waterproof
- Has to be held
- Takes an hour to charge for about an hour and a half of play
Nora: Great for Synced Excitement
Nora is a favorite rabbit vibrator with a rotating head aimed at hitting your G-spot while the clitoral nub vibrates away.
This beauty provides over four hours of play and has a voice-activated feature. The louder you get, the more intense it gets.
You can also sync it to your favorite tunes for a full sensory experience.
It’s a great toy for long-distance loving, as it can be synced to the Max 2 male toy.
You and your partner can have hours of fun together, no matter how far apart you are.
Keep in mind that the Nora comes with an extruding plastic handle, so it’s certainly not comfortable or easy to use outside your home.
For public play, the Lush 3 is a better option.
That same plastic handle can be a bit tough to hang onto if your hands are covered in lube.
And it’s not waterproof, though the silicone parts can be easily cleaned with soap and water.
Pros:
- Clitoral and G-spot pleasure
- Can be synced with Max 2 male toy
- Powerful clitoral motor
- Hours of fun
Cons:
- Plastic handle hard to hold with lubed hand
- Not for public play
- Rotating head less powerful than the clitoral nub
Hush 2: Incredible Backdoor Sensations
Whether you’re wanting to explore the backdoor or you’re a vet, the Hush 2 can take you on a wild ride.
This vibrating butt plug comes in four different sizes from slim to a lot of girth. You can choose the best fit for your comfort.
Depending on the size of the toy, the battery length differs.
The slimmest offers up to two hours of fun on a 40-minute charge. The largest provides up to 11 hours on a 155-minute charge.
Once fully charged, you can appreciate the 120 hours of standby time. That means it can always be ready to go when you and your partner are in the mood.
Speaking of partners, they can control this butt plug from a distance on the app – or in person with the sound of their voice.
You can also sync it to your favorite songs and your other Lovense toys.
Partners can enjoy the vibrating pleasure, too.
So whether you’re both into anal play or you just want to intensify your own pleasure, the Hush 2 is there for you.
Pros:
- Different sizes available
- Quiet enough for public play
- Connect 2 toys
- Waterproof
- Magnetic charging
Cons:
- Can take some exploring to find the size and pattern vibration to suit you
Domi 2: Double Duty Magic
The Domi 2 is a wand vibrator that provides a lot of bang for its buck.
Whether you’re looking for sexual fun or a relaxing massage, its flexible head delivers some powerful vibrations to your erogenous zones – and to your sore muscles.
Unfortunately, it’s not waterproof, so you have to keep the fun dry. That also means no relaxing massages in the tub.
And due to its power, it’s not a quiet device. If you have roommates, they’ll know just what you’re up to.
The head doesn’t feel very natural to some users, but they are delighted that it’s soft enough not to rub your skin – or other areas – raw like some wands do.
Thanks to its ridged handle, it’s easy to hold onto.
And it’s controllable through the app, so your partner can have their way with you – not to mention they can enjoy the show through the video functions.
Pros:
- Powerful vibrations
- Good for sexual pleasure and sore muscles
- Soft, flexible head
- Ridged handle
- Partner can control and watch from a distance
Cons:
- Not quiet
- Not waterproof
Sex Machine: Real Deal Simulation
If you’re looking to let the good times roll behind closed doors, you should consider the sex machine.
It’s a literal machine that simulates thrusting, allowing the user to enjoy and feel something as close to the real deal as possible.
It has two arms and dildos, so two people can use it at once.
And it offers versatile adjustments, so no matter your favorite position or entrance, the Sex Machine can accommodate.
Couples can have a lot of fun with this. It can be controlled via the app, so partners can control the thrusting as if they are there.
Thanks to the double arms, both parties can join in, if preferred. Or one party can enjoy the machine while pleasuring their partner orally.
Pros:
- Multiple ways for couples to enjoy
- Double arms and dildos
- Versatility and adjustable angles
- Controllable from a distance
Cons:
- Can move around too much on the highest setting
- Dildos not the best quality
Calor: Man’s New Best Friend
Sex toys are often geared toward the ladies, but this one is definitely a win for the guys.
The Calor is a pocket male masturbator with a grooved insert and depth control sensors.
The deeper you go, the more responsive the Calor becomes.
It’s waterproof, so you can steam up your showers or water play with your partner. The heating function increases the realistic feel of the experience.
The Calor is easier to grip than other male masturbators, and it comes with various patterns controlled via the app.
This lets your lover take control while you enjoy the ride.
The downside for some is that you must grip harder for more pressure instead of it doing this automatically.
Pros:
- Waterproof
- Easy to clean
- Easy to grip
- Heating vibrations and depth sensors
- Grooved insert
Cons:
- Must manually increase pressure
3 Things to Consider When Purchasing Couples Toys
- Remember who is using it. You might want to dive into some powerful toys, but be sure to check with your partner if they will be used on them. Not everyone has the same level of comfort or experience.
- When purchasing a butt plug, do not forget to find one with a flared end like the Hush 2. Those without one can be difficult to remove and have – on more than one occasion – sent users to the hospital for help with extraction.
- Choose safe materials. Nonporous silicone and similar products are best for items that will be in direct contact with the body. Others – not so much. The items on this list are indeed “body safe,” but be sure to pay attention to any others you might be looking into.
