Smart technology has made its way into every part of our lives. We have apps that can control everything from lights and music to stoves and thermostats. Smart technology has even made its way into the bedroom toy box.
These days you can find adult toys with features including remote control, timers, hundreds, or even thousands of programmable features. Some can even be set to pulse and vibrate to music or sync with a steamy erotic novel or video.
Most of these features are controlled using mobile apps; some are also available for PC or Mac. While the specific app used will depend on the toy, there are some differences that you may want to be aware of ahead of time. We’ve put together this group of the 6 best vibrator apps to help you see what each has to offer.
Best Vibrator Apps
Long before vibrators could be connected with apps or we could ask our favorite smart assistant what the weather was, adults were playing with their very own toys.
You may be surprised to know adult toys in some form are believed to have been around for around 30,000 years!! Yes, that is supposed to be 4 zeros!
Don’t worry if that may make it seem you are late to the party; every day with the help of innovation and technology sex toys are being made to fit our modern lifestyles. The most modern aspect of sex toys revolves around some form of distance play. That could be across a bed, across a room, or even across the world.
The way toys can be controlled with some distance is with remote apps. Major sex toy companies are competing to provide their customers with the newest and best apps that give you tons of options for using your toy, either on your own or with a partner.
That’s enough of the background… let’s get into what you are really here to know. What are the best vibrator apps?
Best Vibrator Apps
This table shows each app and the company that has designed or published the app. You will also find a listing for each of the most popular and most used internet-connected devices that people across the world use to with their adult toys to interact either with their partners, websites, live cams, or even strangers.
You will notice the categories Music Sync and AV Sync. Music Sync may refer to music built into the app itself, ambient music that can be picked up by the app, or even both. AV Sync is a new feature available in some apps and on their connected toys.
This feature allows you to interact and experience either erotic fiction in audiobook form, or adult films, as well as, some live webcam interactions, either audio or video.
The category of interactive refers to some level of interactivity between two or more persons within the app, this could be real-time interfacing between the toys themselves, chat, or even live video options.
Finally, we’ve listed the number of toys that can currently be connected to the app as of the date of publication. We fully realize that this estimation may be less than the possible options, but should give you some idea of the availability.
| App Name | Brand | iOS? | Android? | PC? | Mac? | Long Distance? | Music Sync? | AV Sync? | Interactive? | # of Toys |
| Lovense Remote App | Lovense | X | X | X | X | X | X | — | X | 9 |
| Vibease App | Vibease | X | X | — | — | X | X | X | X | 2 |
| We-Connect | We-Vibe | X | X | — | — | X | X | X | X | 9 |
| OhMiBod | OhMiBod | X | X | — | — | X | X | — | X | 6+ |
| FeelConnect | Kiiroo/Fleshlight | X | X | X | X | X | — | X | X | 7+ |
| MysteryVibe | MysteryVibe | X | X | — | — | — | — | — | — | 2 |
1-Lovense Remote App
Lovense is a leader in the interactive sex toy industry for a very good reason. The combination of any of their toys with their interactive and fully immersive mobile app allows couples to share intimate moments miles apart, even across oceans.
Spice things up between you and your partner with interactive controls that can be synced to music or another toy. The Lovense Nora and Max 2 are specifically designed to use the remote app to allow them to produce feedback responses based on how one of the partners is using their toy, no matter where they are.
As long as you have a good internet connection, the Lovense remote app can provide endless ways of enhancing your sexual experience.
What to Love
Lovense is one of the few toy lines that can work in feedback modes, based on how one person is using their toy.
The remote app connects the toys via the internet for nearly seamless interaction making intimacy a possibility for even long-distance couples. The closest thing to real sex you can get in a virtual world.
All Lovense toys are equipped with music sync. You can select a number of music soundtracks directly in the app, or create your very own “play” list.
One of the favorite aspects of the remote app is close proximity control. You can use the app to control the wearable devices.
Take a walk on the wild side by allowing a partner to control your wearable device while out in public. These days everyone is on their phone anyway, so no one will know just what you and your partner are up to.
What Needs Improving
There have been some issues in the past with connectivity between the toys and the app, although (fingers crossed) these have been remedied with the most recent updates.
Individuals who choose to use toys that interact with audio erotic novels or adult films will find the Lovense app lacking the capabilities.
2- Vibease App
What sets the Vibease app apart is the built-in communication features. This app brings together the most popular vibration control options with the best of social media communications. You can use the features built into the app to text and video chat with your partner or choose one of the hundreds of erotic audiobooks to lead your fantasy play.
What to Love
The Vibease app and toys allow you to enjoy amazing sensations in a number of ways. You can wear your Vibease vibrator easily under most clothing for a discreet and sensual experience.
Give control over to a trusted partner and go out for a night on the town. You can experience vibration patterns set by your partner or set the app to sync to the surrounding music, the stimulating options are nearly endless.
In some situations, the connectivity may even allow for underwater stimulation controllable through the app as well. Thanks to the improvements in the app and Bluetooth connectivity you can imagine some steamy hot tub (or shower) fun.
What Needs Improving
The Vibease app is not available on PC or Mac and is only compatible (currently) with 2 toys. There are also no male designs for stimulation, making the entire line a bit short-sighted.
Overall, the app is a good start, and but could definitely benefit from some more customized options for patterns. One of the most suggested upgrades would be to allow video chat interactivity, which is definitely an intriguing idea.
3-We-Connect
We-Vibe’s We-Connect app allows users to interact with a wide range of toys including the popular We-Vibe Sync, a wearable clitoral and G-Spot stimulator. The We-Connect app gives a ton of play options, including touch screen adjustments, creating custom patterns, and personal playlists.
Wearable We-Vibe toys can even be powered on and off remotely from across the world if the app is connected to a stable internet connection on both ends. Users can also spice things up with some in-app communication, including video.
What to Love
We absolutely love that We-Connect has options for both male and female sexual stimulation from anywhere with a stable internet connection.
The We-Connect app’s unique “tease” features allow couples to interact and build their excitement and even allow you to power the toys on and off from the app.
We-Connect also allows you to sync to a playlist on your phone or ambient music. This allows you to go out to a club and literally feel the rhythm with either the We-Vibe wearable toys.
What Needs Improving
We-Connect does need some improvement. They do have some limitation options, the app is not compatible with all smartphones, though they are adding models all the time. Compatibility is not guaranteed for newer Bluetooth 4.0 devices either.
Individuals considering purchases a We-Vibe and using We-Connect may want to attempt to find someone with their specific device to ensure it is compatible.
4- OhMiBod
The OhMiBod remote app features options for both in-person and distance play. The app has several pre-set patterns for stimulating fun either solo or with a partner.
The remote app can also be connected to several of the OhMiBod toys for a variety of sexual and virtual sexual pleasures. The most unique feature of the OhMiBod app is Oh!Dometer, a way to log and track orgasms. It can even be set up to alert your partner when orgasm has been achieved
What to Love
OhMiBod is a good basic sex toy app that allows remote control over distances or during close encounters. Luckily there is a range of toy options available.
The winning feature is definitely the Oh!Dometer, a favorite of individuals that practice orgasm control in some way, or enjoy sharing their intimate moments with their partner.
What Needs Improving
The OhMiBod app requires a newer operating system, Android 5.0 or newer, and iOS 10 or newer. This limits customers with older smart devices. There have also been some reported privacy issues with some devices, though these bugs have been reportedly remedied.
This app also has very limited options for interactive play or playing with multiple toys and users. OhMiBod also fails to provide some of the favorite features of other apps and toys such as music and AV sync.
5-FeelConnect
FeelConnect is the brainchild of a collaborative effort between the sex toy giants Kiiroo and Fleshlight. What sets FeelConnect apart from other apps is the focus solely predominantly on the pleasure of men. The app can also connect several toys together for a virtual multi-orgasmic experience.
Individuals who enjoy watching adult films can also use FeelConnect to be part of the action, virtually of course. This feature also makes the FeelConnect app a favorite for live adult action websites and chatrooms.
The FeelConnect app also offers users the limited option of connecting the app through a PC or Mac laptop or computer, opening up a wider range of adult content than only mobile devices.
What to Love
FeelConnect is synonymous with options when it comes to providing the widest range of connectible toys thanks to the company’s partnerships with several other toy companies.
Individuals wanting to experience adult video content in real-time virtual stimulation will be the most impressed with everything FeelConnect has to offer. They are also adding new content, including videos and connected websites almost daily.
What Needs Improving
Where FeelConnect falls short is the lack of attention to the couples that enjoy interacting with each other or allow one to take control.
There are ways to use the FeelConnect app in a relationship, close or at a distance, however the lack of attention to this population is evident. FeelConnect reinforces the stereotypical male-only sexual fantasies.
6-MysteryVibe
MysteryVibe was designed to connect with the MysteryVibe Crescendo and Tenuto vibrating sex toys.
Crescendo is a flexible vibrator with 6 individual motors that when connected to the app can provide a wide range of stimulation and excitement. Tenuto is one of the only wearable vibrators made for men. Tenuto features 6 individual motors as well.
The MysteryVibe app allows users to select from a large library of preprogrammed patterns or create their own. Distance play is possible; using real-time control built into the app.
What to Love
The best part of the MysteryVibe collection is the toys themselves, the number of motors allows for some amazing stimulation no matter what parts you have. The library of patterns is massive and new patterns are being added all the time by the company and other users.
MysteryVibe toys run a little less expensive than some of the others on this list, although not inexpensive enough to be considered budget-friendly.
What Needs Improving
MysteryVibe should take some cues from some of the other companies on this list. The lack of real-time interaction options, and AV or music sync seems outdated when stacked against the competition.
Additional Options
You may be surprised (or not) at the number of apps designed to turn your smartphone into a vibrator to provide some stimulation whenever the mood strikes you.
Whether you need to relax a muscle group or two or dare to place your phone near an erogenous zone, you may be surprised at the amount of vibration and stimulation a seemingly simple vibrating app can provide.
Although these apps do not really hold a candle to the interactive and direct stimulation options of the ones mentioned above. Here is a brief look at the most popular phone vibration apps available:
Please note that these apps are for external vibrations, massage, or notifications, not intended for internal stimulation.
Best Vibrator PRO
Designed as a fantastic massaging vibration app, this turns your smartphone into a powerhouse massager. The app works flawlessly in the background making it a unique addition to any of the above apps allowing the controller some soothing vibrations while providing stimulation to the receiver.
iMassage U Vibrating Massager
This app is a one-note vibrating massager with various options. Designed to soothe achy muscles and relieve some stress. The only drawback is, this app is only available for iPhone users, and purchases are required for additional options
Massager Vibration App
This app is the answer to the iPhone only iMassage. This app is only available for Android users and features not only adjustable vibrations but the addition of soothing and tranquil sounds as well. Users that want to feel some soothing vibrations and combine ambient sounds with the apps that offer that with their favorite toys can get the best of both worlds.
Final Thoughts
The best part of emerging technology is that it is ever-changing. Just like the innovative smart technology that is getting smaller and smarter with each passing year, we fully expect sex toy manufacturers to continue to provide us with great technology.
Whether you play solo or fully integrate yourself in technology with your sexual fantasies, there is an app and connectible sex toy on this list that is sure to provide more than just your basic vibrations. With all of the options available already, the future looks pretty tantalizing.
We hope you have found the information in the article helpful. The last thing we would ever want is for you to purchase a toy that you want to connect or control via a mobile app only to find out that app does not meet your specific needs.
We wish you the best of luck in your sexual discoveries, may all of your vibrations be great ones!
