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Lovense Lapis Review: Does It Actually Work?

I’m back with another Lovense review and this time I’m looking at one of their newest products: the Lovense Lapis.

Lovense could have just made a simple app-controlled strap-on that would certainly have been a hit.

However, they decided to push the envelope and make something a little bit more exciting by adding a vibrator at the receiving and giving end of the sex toy.

This review covers everything you need to know about the Lovense Lapis, so you can decide whether this is something for you.


Get to Know the Lovense Lapis

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The Lovense brand was founded on the idea of helping partners stay sexually connected even when they have to be physically distant.

Since launching a few simple vibrators, this sex toy brand has gone on to revolutionize the technology we use in the bedroom.

The Lovense brand has a little something for everyone and the Lapis is a new product that’s here to put a fresh spin on an old toy.

Does this vibrating strap-on live up to the hype or is it going to wind up being just another tech gadget with too many features?

Lovense Lapis: The Features You Need to Know

This is a strapless strap-on that contains not one, but two vibrators. No matter which ends of this toy you and your partner are on, it’s sure to be a thrill.

The Ideal Modern Strap-On

There’s no shortage of modernized strap-ons out there that have some kind of vibrating feature.

However, we’ve yet to get a truly modern strap-on that delivers something a little bit extra to this classic sex toy.

The Lovense Lapis uses modern materials, has a unique strapless design, and connects with the Lovense Remote app.

This is the triple threat of tech era strap-on dildos.


Modern day sex toys tend to be much more discreet than the sex toys of yesteryear.

The Lovense Lapis continues this trend with its sleek, modern design that’s perfect for taking along in your travel suitcase or throwing in a bag when you’re off to visit your partner.

Designed to Be “a Part” of Your Body

The Lovense Lapis was expressly designed to feel like it was a part of your body.

This is one of the features that really stands out to me and separates the Lapis from all of the other strap-ons that you can buy on the adult toy market today.

Yes, even when competing with other vibrating strap-ons, the Lovense Lapis still stands head and shoulders above the rest of the crowd as something totally unique that belongs in your bedroom.

The lightweight design means that it will stay in place even during the most vigorous play with your partner.

You also don’t need to sport a bulky harness when you’re using the Lapis.

The unique strapless design means the Lovense Lapis stays in place, even if you don’t own a harness.

This is perfect for someone who’s been wanting to experiment with strap-ons, but who also feels like harnesses are a bit much to invest in.

The Lovense Lapis sex toy is much more tactile and responsive than other strap-ons.

Because it’s designed to pleasure both partners at the same time, it really does feel like an extension of your own body.

Ideal for Gender Exploration

app-controlled vibrating, dual-ended strap-on

This is yet another standout feature of the Lovense Lapis.

Even Lovense recommends this particular sex toy out of their entire range for someone interested in exploring gender and sexuality.

Strap-ons in general are a great starting point for someone who has a female body type who is looking to explore their gender identity.

The Lovense Lapis makes this even more incredible since it is designed to fit without a harness and stimulates the wearer, as well as the partner on the receiving end, all at the same time.

If you’ve been curious about experimenting with gender, the Lovense Lapis is a great place to start or continue your journey.

Built-in G-Spot Vibrator with Clitoral Stimulation

The Lovense Lapis has some stimulating features for the wearer, so let’s get into those in detail.

Trust me, these are some of the best features in the Lovense Lapis.

It all starts with how the wearer connects with this device.

You don’t need a clunky harness, you simply need to insert the wearing end just like you would any G-spot vibrator.

The Lovense Lapis is designed to hold itself in place without causing any discomfort.

Speaking of, discomfort is the last thing you’re going to be feeling with the Lovense Lapis!

 lightweight Strapless Strap-on

The G-Spot stimulating vibrator doesn’t miss its mark and can deliver the most powerful, or the most gentle, stimulation.

The Lapis made me feel like I had an awesome clitoral stimulator as part of the wearing end of this sex toy.

No matter how you like your vibrations, they’re guaranteed to be good with the Lapis.

Ribbed Shaft with Vibrating Tip

Strap-ons are designed for enjoying with a partner, so no review will be complete without talking about the receiving end of this sex toy.

The length and girth of the Lovense Lapis are in the upper medium range.

This makes them perfect for anyone looking to pick up their first strap-on or even experiment with a dildo for the first time.

The Lovense Lapis isn’t too intimidating, but it’s also big enough to deliver some serious pleasure.

The shaft of the Lovense Lapis is gently ribbed which adds some extra stimulation.

There’s also a powerful vibrating motor in the tip of the shaft which can be controlled independently of the other two motors.

Yes, you have fully independent control of all three motors.

Lovense Lapis Smart Strapless Strap-on

This means you can turn on the exact stimulation you and your partner are looking for without any unnecessary distractions.

The shaft of the Lovense Lapis is very durable, but it is not meant to be bent around too much.

You might want to pick up a more flexible dildo if you’re looking for something that can take more of a vigorous beating.

Pair With the Lovense Remote for More Fun

As with all toys from this brand, the Lovense Lapis is designed to work with the Lovense Remote app.

This opens up all kinds of avenues of fun. This not only lets you control the app for playing with your partner, but you also get more options on playing solo.

The app is also designed to work long distance.

This means that you and your partner can have some fun with this sex toy even if they’re not around to enjoy the other end of the strap-on.

The app also unlocks a few interesting features. You can sync the toy with music if you want to use it with your favorite romantic playlist, for example.

One of the Best Sex Toys for Experimenting

I already talked about how good strap-ons are for exploring gender, but they’re also one of the best sex toys when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom.

Lovense Lapis App-Controlled Vibrating Strapless

The Lovense Lapis is a great sex toy whether you’re looking to buy your first dildo or vibrator, or would like to experiment with something a bit more exciting like pegging.

The Lovense Lapis is a comfortable fit for most body types and a great all-round option.

This makes it a good first sex toy, too.

Since it offers so many different types of stimulation in one package, it’s a pretty ideal option for someone looking for a single sex toy that delivers on just about everything.

How to Make the Most of Your Lovense Lapis

If those features sounded appealing enough that you’ve already made your purchase, you’re going to want to read these three tips on how you can make the most of your new Lovense Lapis.

Getting Ready to Enjoy Your New Lapis

The first thing you need to do is get to know the controls of this sex toy.

There really is only one control on the body of the toy itself and that’s the on and off button. This is located on the side of the base of the shaft of the strap-on.

App-Controlled Vibrating Strapless Strap-on Dildo

You also want to make sure that you get this sex toy paired with the Lovense app before you decide to have some fun.

Nothing kills the mood faster than fiddling around with tech problems when you want to be having a good time instead.

When you power the Lovense Lapis on, the LED power indicator will blink to let you know that it’s in pairing mode.

You can then follow the on-screen instructions on your app to get this sex toy connected.

How to Program Your Lovense Lapis

Next, I’m going to walk you through how you can create a custom program for the Lovense Lapis.

Open your Lovense app and navigate to the My Toys section. There, you’ll be able to find the Lapis.

Once you click on the icon for the Lovense Lapis, you can change settings like adjusting the level of vibration and creating a custom program.

Your custom program gives you an endless amount of vibration and patterns to choose from. You can store up to 10 custom patterns at once.

Extra Tips for Getting the Most Out of Your Lapis

I’m going to round out this how-to guide by talking about a few tips for making the most out of the Lovense Lapis.

Lovense Lapis Pegging Toy

The first thing that you need to know is that you absolutely have to use lube with this toy. It’s simply not designed to be used without a water-based lubricant.

The neck of this strap-on is also not meant to be bent side to side. This could damage the internal electronics and ruin the vibrating feature.

The neck of this toy can also only be bent up to 180°.

Going any farther than that risks damaging both the internal electronics and the body safe silicone the toy is made out of.

Frequently Asked Questions About the Lovense Lapis

What Are the Dimensions of the Lovense Lapis?

The Lovense Lapis has an overall length of 9.06 inches and a girth of 1.61 inches.

The insertable length of this toy is 5.43 inches on one end and 3.43 inches on the other.

Can the Lovense Lapis Be Used Solo? 

Lovense Lapis Strapon Vibrator

The Lovense Lapis was designed with a partner or partners in mind, but this toy is also ideal for solo play.

The Lapis can take on the role of your new favorite vibe, dildo, or something more exotic as you experiment with sexuality and gender.

How Often Should I Charge My Lovense Lapis? 

Lovense recommends that you charge their sex toys at least once every 6 months in order to keep them in their ideal operating condition.

So, try to keep your Lovense Lapis charged-up in between uses and make sure that it’s topped off every 6 months.

What Lube Should I Use With the Lovense Lapis?

The Lovense Lapis is made out of body-safe silicone, which means that it should only ever be used with water-based lubricants.

Oil or silicone lubricants can break down the materials that this sex toy is made out of, which can make it difficult to clean and unpleasant to use.

How Can I Clean My Lovense Lapis?

Lapis G-spot vibrator bendable neck

The easiest way to clean your Lovense Lapis is to simply wash it using warm water and a mild antibacterial hand soap.

This sex toy can also be cleaned with any sex toy cleaning product, such as the one that you can buy directly from Lovense.

Lovense Lapis Pros

  • It’s a strapless strap-on — what’s not to love?
  • Works with the Lovense app.
  • IPX7 Waterproofing.
  • Wearing this strap-on is very comfortable.
  • An ideal way to spice up your sex life whether solo or with a partner.

Lovense Lapis Cons

  • Less secure in use than a traditional strap-on.
  • Vibrating features can be a bit much, depending on preference.
  • Using the app can get a bit distracting during play.

Lovense Lapis Review: The Verdict

I’ve got to be honest, I was a little skeptical of the Lovense Lapis, at first.

However, once I got to know this sex toy a little bit more personally, I can easily say that it became one of my favorites.

The Lovense Lapis offers a few new tricks that your standard vibrator, dildo, or strap on just can’t manage on their own.

If you’re looking for a sex toy that’s just as exciting as it is unique, pick up the Lovense Lapis today

Written by William LeClair

The LovenseFAN Team led by William LeClair is an unofficial collective of experts and power users, each deeply immersed in the world of Lovense products. With combined experiences including working with leading SexTech companies, following the success of Lovense since the very first Indiegogo campaign and years of hands-on use, the team offers a comprehensive understanding of the company's mission and products. Dive into their insights and guides to explore the multifaceted world of Lovense and discover the future of Sex.

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